Time and time management are things we all have to think about. And as adults we have to think about being on time and making it places when we are supposed to.
No one likes to be late, so lots of times we end up rushing and hurrying. There for we often spend life in a rush. We rush over even the more simple things like whats for dinner. Living life in a rush leaves little time for enjoyment.
I look at my kiddo who is never in a rush for anything. Even the things he want to do. Pretty sure he is on island time.
It’s hard to decide if I should be jealous that he is so care free, or if I should be frustrated because we have to rush not to be late and he is moving so slow. He even walks at a relaxed pace, which makes trying to get to the car in a hurry fun. When we are in a hurry he is walking like he is on island time and has no where to be, you may even trip over him because he just stops right in front of you. Maybe we need to start leaving a lot earlier, which I do leave early but not for the slow putting on shoes, lost jackets and the snail pace walking to the car.
Sure there are times and places when we need to hurry or be sure we are on time: such as work or appointments. But maybe you can avoid the rush by planning ahead and starting early.
If your always rushing and hurrying through things, then your going to feel more stress and anxiety. Meaning you will get over whelmed easily.
So three things we can try to help prevent the rush feeling.
Plan Ahead
We can start pre planning for things and set aside time for certain things. Like planning meals and having everything you need ready to go. Plan what chore need to be done on what days so things do not pile up on the weekend.
You could also try making a list. Like what all needs to be done before your kid gets on the bus. Then go down the list and see if everything is ready before it is time to walk out the door.
Start Early
Maybe start the process of getting somewhere early. If it takes a lot of time to get your kid ready to go then maybe start the whole process 10 minutes earlier.
It is better to be early then to be running late.
Your can even pre lay out clothing for the next day and have lunches packed and in fridge.
Slow Down
If you have extra time and do not have to rush then you can take your time and not stress out. Life will be more enjoyable and you will have time to stop and smell the flowers or see the beautiful sites in nature around us. But if your always in the rush your not going to be able to enjoy any of that if you even notice it at all.
Time for yourself
Also make sure you set aside time for yourself. There is nothing wrong with doing hobby or being with friends. The better you manage your time the more opportunity you will have for the things you enjoy.
There is only be 24 hours in a day so the sooner we realize we have to pick and choose the better we can manage our time.
Time management is hard and may need to be adjusted all the time. But even if you get mess up from time to time it will be ok you just keep working on it. I don’t know if anyone is perfect in time management all the time for all there lives, I feel there is always room for improvement and learning during different seasons of our lives. Remember time management is a skill you must practiced.
So plan what you can and enjoy your life no matter what comes.
